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Understanding these differences is important and can be very helpful in reducing the risks of misunderstandings, or worse causing offence.
In general family ties and influence are very strong and by global standards moral & family standards are high. So be and act as gentlemen in the course of your correspondence. Allow your lady to take the lead, particularly when it comes to intimacy.
Let her know what you look like! A surprising number of men are reluctant to post their photos on the net. Be realistic, would you write to a lady if you did not know how she looks? A lack of photo is regarded by many ladies as suspicious. What is he afraid of, what is he hiding?
By global standards the majority of these ladies are not financially secure, but equally they tend by nature to be generous by disposition. It is not a good idea to dwell on the value of your house, car or anything else for that matter. The ladies that you wish to attract will be put off by what they consider boasting of such things. There will be those ladies that will be interested in your financial status, but are you sure you seek such a woman?
Seemingly in contradiction to the above most of these ladies will be looking for a man that is financially stable and secure, she will be considering making a major commitment in moving to a foreign country and will need to know that you will be able to help her start a new life in a new country.
Allow the relationship to develop at her speed. Telling her you love her after two letters could be a good way to lose her. Be patient and listen to what she is saying. These ladies are in general very intelligent and very smart, so they will feel good if they feel you are being attentive and responsive to what they are saying.
Many of these ladies are very beautiful, but equally they are smart enough to know that their beauty will one day fade. Allow her to express her deeper and more profound qualities, note them and better still compliment them.
Whilst most ladies like to be complimented on their beauty, do not go overboard. Many of these ladies have genuine concerns that they should become to their man a mannequin, or simply an adornment. Someone or something to hang onto the arm of a man as if a decoration. Excessive references to their physical beauty alone could create feelings of unease for her for these reasons.
Be generous of nature and of heart with her. One of the greatest turn off`s with these ladies is meanness, but this is not so much a financial question, but more a generosity of spirit, or an openness of nature. Yes of course you can send gifts, or flowers, it is normal when romancing any woman, but try to be with her open and generous this is something very attractive for these ladies.
Be patient with her; allow her to take the lead in all. Do not expect her to invite you to her country to visit her after three letters (she will think you very desperate), allow the relationship to develop naturally and at her pace.
Romancing a Russian lady can be both a joy and an inspiration as so many of these ladies have many deep and attractive qualities. Equally tuning into their intelligence, awareness and perspectives can be a very pleasant surprise. Be patient and responsive, the prize is very worthwhile.
